Smart Start: Why Day One Expectations Set the Tone for the Whole Year
- Jodi Rabitoy

- Jul 25
- 2 min read
Ah, the smell of fresh pencils. The glare of laminated name tags. The sweet chaos of finding out your new class includes a kid named Legend, another named Marvel, and yes - twins named Aiden and Jaden.
Welcome back to school, friend.
Before the avalanche of emails, assemblies, and mystery cafeteria meatballs begins, let's talk about something that can actually save your sanity this year: expectations.
We're not talking about "keep your hands to yourself" scribbled on a whiteboard or a rules poster that's older than your new intern. We mean real, meaningful conversations about what it looks like, sounds like, and feels like to be in your classroom - for both you and your students.
Why Expectations Matter (Even More Than Your Color-Coded Bins)
Research backs it up, and so does experience: kids thrive when they know what to expect. Setting clear, consistent expectations right from the start builds trust, reduces chaos, and helps your classroom basically run by itself by Halloween. (Okay, fine - by Thanksgiving.)
When you and your students co-create the norms of your room, they're more likely to own them. That's why I love kicking off with something interactive. Try this video:
It's friendly, fun, and walks through what a good teacher and a good student look like, sound like, do, and don't do. Even better - it gives kids a voice. You pause, discuss, and decide together what your classroom culture should be.
And let me tell you: hearing a 9-year-old explain what a "good teacher doesn't do" can be eye-opening. ("They don't yell like my uncle playing Mario Kart.")
Put It on Paper: Visuals + Student Input
After the video, we like to keep the momentum going with a few handy tools:
Our Student Reflection Worksheets are perfect for helping students process what they’ve learned and add their own ideas through writing and drawing. Pro tip: print them front to back, stick them in a folder, and voilà—you’ve got a growing portfolio of SEL gold.
Then there are the Anchor Charts. Simple. Clean. A3-ready. These bad boys go up on the wall and stay there like your favorite meme—reminding everyone, every day, what you’re building together.
And if you're like me and appreciate a good deal, we’ve bundled them all up in our Classroom Expectations Bundle so you don’t have to go hunting for links like a caffeinated squirrel.
Final Tips from the Trenches
Be consistent. If it’s a rule on Tuesday, it’s still a rule on Friday (even if it’s pizza day).
Model everything. Yes, even lining up. Especially lining up.
Revisit and revise. Expectations aren’t set in stone. If your class needs a mid-year reset, go for it.
You Got This
Look—you’re not just managing a classroom. You’re building a tiny society with snacks and glitter glue. Start with clear expectations, a touch of humor, and a plan that invites your students into the process. The rest? It’ll come.
(Except the mystery meatballs. No one ever solves that.)
👉 Browse our Back to School Resources here, and don’t forget to treat yourself to a fresh pen or something fancy from the teacher aisle. You deserve it.











This is excellent information as we prepare for the first day of school coming up very very soon. Thank you for that and i look forward to reading more.